What’s Important In Relationship?
Soul Sign
Relationships are soul caused but often are ego-based the way they are lived. Being soul caused they have a higher purpose. Being ego-based, that purpose is difficult to achieve.
Reflection
The primary issue in personality based relationships is dealing with one’s ego. Ego by nature is self- interested and self-focused. When influenced by soul it becomes more other-oriented. There can be a fake other- orientation when the underlying motive is to take sufficient interest in others in order to manipulate them or to get what one wants from them or to show off.
Self-interest usually creates distance, dissatisfaction or conflict in relationship.
When something is not working in a relationship or when there is conflict, distance, dissatisfaction, etc. ask yourself questions like these:
What’s more important, this relationship or my ego?
What’s more important, this relationship or my being right?
What’s more important, this relationship or my momentary pleasure?
What’s more important, this relationship or getting my own way?
When the relationship is given priority, soul can then enter.
By Soul Journey