Speak With Wisdom
Soul Sign
Wise speech emanates from the soul. It does not need to be clever, but it does need to be constructive, be motivated by goodwill, be appropriate, true and beneficial.
Reflection
Wise speech is not harsh, nor does it put another down, even though it can be direct and address injustice or mistreatment.
When we feel hurt or unloved we often use speech that is not wise, speech that is intended to hurt another. Words can hurt since the emotional pain networks in your brain overlap with physical pain networks. While the recall of physical pain in the past is a lot weaker than when first experienced, memories of emotional pain can be very intense over a very long period of time. They can alter relationships forever.
Frequently examine the nature, quality and motivation of your speech to other people, especially in situations where you feel uncomfortable.
By Soul Journey